'Her fiancé had no idea we were together': Man's ex-girlfriend gets engaged to another person just one week after their breakup

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    Font - Posted by u/MoreRespect20 6 hours ago Ex Engaged Less than a week after we split. Her fiancé had no idea we were together. I wrote a blog and shared it with some of her friends and family.
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    Font - Towards the end of last year, I started talking to a girl I went to high school with. We didn't really stay in touch and are both now. (35). She had always had this very outgoing bubbly personality and a strong Christian faith since I knew her. I was brought up Christian but fell away from it.
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    Font - When we started hanging out we talked one night about past relationships and how we had both always had bad relationships that ended with the other party cheating/lying and in her case she talked about how she was always abused. She actually dated one of my friends' buddies and told me a little bit about that relationship etc. (This will be important later)
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    Font - I for once felt like I found a woman who understood me and that we had both been through similar pain. She was nothing but nice and caring our whole relationship. Always asking about my day, cooking me dinner, running me a bath, massages and never once did she put me down. She was always trying to build me up anytime I was hard on myself. I honestly thought she was too good of a girl for me.
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    Font - In order to know make this super long we'll fast forward to last month where for a week she suddenly became distant and at first, she was sick, and I was just giving her space. I had sent her some flowers on a Friday in which she was happy to get but over the weekend and into the next she wasn't really answering my texts or calls. As I said at the time, I thought she just needed space but in the back of my mind I did have some
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    Font - thoughts of what if she's seeing someone else or we're about to breakup. Now during our whole relationship, I had full trust in this woman more then I'd ever had in any other. She finally called me the following Friday and I could tell where it was headed. She said she wanted to
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    Font - find a man of faith etc. To which I told her that if that's what she wants then that's what she deserves. We talked for about an hour and after hanging up I really wasn't all that upset over it. For me I felt for once I had an honest and respectful relationship and felt I could finally find that moving forward. Me and her just weren't
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    Font - for each other but at least I had seen that I could find someone who would treat me right in the future. But then that all turned upside down. However, not more than a week later I see her post a picture on Facebook with another guy. At first, I'm like this has to be an old Facebook account etc. Well not only was it not she was also ENGAGED to this guy. At this point I'm feeling
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    Font - all kinds of emotions. I text her basically saying that she could have just been upfront with me. She responds saying she's sorry and that she knows this seems crazy, but they had hung out after we broke up and he confessed his feelings towards her. I couldn't wrap my head around any of this and she apologized another time or two and then basically said she wasn't going to keep apologizing etc. Telling me how I should go to Church and find God etc.
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    Font - In one of my heated moments, I decide to leave a comment on her new fiancé post about them getting engaged saying "funny we were just in a relationship less than a week ago." She called me the following morning mad with her first words being are you crazy!! Have you lost
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    Font - your mind? That I had no right to post that as we were broke up etc. Still claiming she had never cheated on me or anything. She finally admitted that they were talking while we were together, but she'd known him 10 years and wasn't going to stop talking to a friend and that it was never anything "bad" I told her she emotionally cheated on me and she denied it over and over. I was losing my mind and was suicidal for several days as I couldn't
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    Font - understand this at all. THEN two days later I get a message from her fiancé asking if I was in a relationship with X, and that she claims you two never dated and had talked a long time ago and that was it."
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    Font - At this point I'm like WTH is this serious? She's completely denying my existence at this point. Not to mention one of her old best friends literally dates my brother who we'd hung out with while dating. Plus, we have mutual friends from high school etc. He asks for proof, so I provide him text messages,
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    Font - pictures etc. He was taken back. He had no idea she was seeing me. Saying he'd already caught her in a couple of lies but brushed it off but basically that he didn't feel he could marry someone who had lied and cheated on the both of us. I felt bad for the guy as he seems like a really good guy himself. He told me
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    Font - they had started talking on August 7th, we broke up on August 25th. I also found a picture of them both hanging out on her couch embraced in a hug on August 16th. At this point I'm still trying to put everything together trying to figure out how this woman who did nothing but treat me well our entire relationship could turn around and deny my existence and basically not even care. The fact
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    Font - that she told me lies and talked about God in the same paragraph just blew me away. Even when confronted with the evidence she continued claiming she never cheated on me. They're both still moving forward with the marriage.
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    Font - AMP121212 18 hr. ago Sounds like you dodged a major bullet Reply Share 6 waka_flaka_2599 - 17 hr. ago ...More like an artillery shell by the sounds of it... 6 Reply Share 3 ●●● MoreRespect20 OP 17 hr. ago This made me chuckle Reply Share ●●●
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    Font - bionicqueefharmonica · 21 hr. ago You were taken advantage of; this new guy just seems to be asking for hurt - he knows full well going in she's a cheater You'll recover OP, and one day you'll look back and laugh at that poor sucker who knowingly married a lying, cheating "Christian"
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    Font - john_jdm 19 hr. ago ● The other guy kind of deserves her if he was willing to get engaged after, what, a month? and he also is staying engaged after finding out about all the lies. Forget her and consider yourself lucky to know who she really is.
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    Font - T SERVE jmccorky 4 hr. ago They got engaged after dating less than 4 weeks?!! These two nutjobs deserve one another. Consider yourself lucky - you dodged a bullet.

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